Why does there have to be blame assigned to everything in the world? Some people waste their entire life blaming others for their shortcomings. And many more people (especially today) use blame to diminish others for their own selfish gains without a shred of factual proof. They want to find someone to be a scapegoat, and they’ll expend every effort and resource they have to make it so.
Why?
What possible good can this do?
People get on the hunt for someone to hang blame on – some people will even blame themselves – for something so trivial and put themselves through such pain and aguish. And still the problem or issue remains unsolved. I have a very low tolerance for seeing someone going through that. Such self-inflicted suffering can only be (IMHO) due to abusive parenting and irresponsible people who are not mature enough to take accountability for their own actions.
We are all human. We will all make mistakes – that’s just the way life is. We can do nothing more than our level best at any one time. And we should always consider that we are 100% responsible for where we are in life. We should recognize that everyone is fighting a different battle that we know nothing about.
Be kind.
Be considerate.
Elevate the humanity in every interaction.
Peace.